Love just aint enough??

Each time listen to this oldies, I would instantly become sentimental cus the lyrics is very meaningful.

I dont wanna lose you,I dont wanna use you
Just to have somebody by my side
And I dont wanna hate youI dont wanna take you
But I dont wanna be the one to cry
That dont really matter to anyone, anymore
But like a fool
I keep losing my place
And I keep seeing you walk through that door
But theres a danger in loving somebody too much
And its sad when you know its your heart you cant trust
Theres a reason why people dont stay where they are
Baby sometimes love just aint enough.

In this era of dating, most people have more than one pot on the fire, sometimes people are dating for the sake of having somebody by their sides, some simply love to be in love. The other day went out with one of my good friend. She is a pretty friend of mine who really inspires me a lot, she can even brighten up my day without spending any effort, we can talk everything under the sun. She has a very steady boyfriend who loves her a lot, pampers her so much...she is another typical gal who cant live without a man, sadly to say haha....and she told me she found herself into her collegue AGAIN, and the feeling is so called "crush". OMG, I thght she was pretty contended with her bf.....and she laughed at me for being old-fashioned, being outdated. Well, i have no idea.

Few days back I attended a motivational talk organised by my company the speaker was a very famous motivational trainer -Lee Sheng Wah. He was a very interesting speaker I could say cus normally I would fall asleep when I listend to this kind of talk or watsoever. Suprisingly I was so awaked during the seminar. When he asked us to define what is love, audiences came out with various funny descriptions, of cos some are lame ones, e.g "love is L, O, V, E", pissed me off! Well, worth to mention that different people have differrent thinkings towards what is love. That's y I say it's so abstract. I had a quarrel with my dear not too long ago, he said I dunno what is true love. To him, love is willingness to be sacrified, willingness to be changed for the other party. Out of egoism, I told him I would not change for anyone, cus i am who I am. Actually in real case, without my realisation, I have been changed by him not-so-obviously.

An apple slide turns brown. Fish becomes rancid. A cut on your skin is raw and inflamed. It happens to all cells in nature. Nevertheless, love will never fade. I found myself have been addicted, it is the condition related to the heart and has nothing to do with the brain. I cant help cus i cant withraw it, anymore. It might sound ludicrous to many people, simply becos I am so in love with a guy whom I hadly meet. It's a phenomenon when u're in love, it's called blind. Ever came acrossed an article whereby the resercher have concluded that The look of love is, indeed, all in the eyes. I found he is so attractive to me, I love the way he gazes at my face and tell me how beautiful I am. I enjoyed sitting by the phone, waiting for his call. I am indulged in his voice, he sings so well. I really appreciate what he's been done to me no matter it's penny little thingy or watsoever. I wonder why he is so insecure to himself, cus to me he is almost perfect regardless he is so ridiculous from time to time.

Sometimes, love just aint enough, I tend to learn that if you really into somebody, u have to let him/her know how much you love him/her. Even though sometimes I am pretty certain that he has been to me, I was forced to concede he wasnt bcos he was not doing what I was anticipating...
To me, true love always prevails. If you're in the right relationship, you will know it and it wont be based on whether ppl are supporting it.